Misc 2

Do you have a friend or someone you know who is in a bad love relationship? You know, that person who constantly calls you and wants to talk smack about their husband/boyfriend/wife/girlfriend? I have no idea why these people stay in a situation like that. Whenever I have had relationship problems, I have either talked to my spouse or boyfriend, whichever it was at the moment, or found a way to move out and move on. I mean, after all, that other person in your relationship is the only one who can fix it with you. If you talk to your significant other, and the problem can’t be fixed, it is time to walk away. Life is way too short to live it in an unhappy relationship that neither of you wants to work on in order to make it better.

I have had my fair share of friends who have wanted to tell me all about their woes, about how he doesn’t do this, or she does that. And I have to tell them I am not a marriage counselor, I can’t help them. What I have found over the years, that this is what happens, every time: you do get pulled into that sort of conversation. You agree with one thing or another that the person may say about their spouse.  When they get back together with the other person or make up, they take it out on you because you encouraged them to break up or whatever it was you said to them that was negative about the person they are in the relationship with. Best advice I can give, is, stay out of it. If they insist on reeling you in to their conversation, tell them to get marriage counseling or get other professional help. If they still insist, tell them that you love them, but you can not be a part of this conversation. Tell them the only person they need to talk to is their spouse. You will be a much happier person for it.

 

 

Sigh. The day after we bought our new car, Fabgrandpa and I were sitting in the living room watching TV. I started smelling smoke, that smell that you smell when there is an electrical fire. It was coming out of the heat vents! We turned the heat pump off, and the smell went away. Fabgrandpa went outside to check on the unit out there, and didn’t see anything wrong, so he came back in the house and started the heat pump again. There was that smell again.

We turned it off again, and scrounged up all the electric space heaters we had around the house, to use while we figured out what to do next. It didn’t help much that we were on the first day of a predicted cold snap where the temps would be down below 30 degrees every night for a week.

The next day, Fabgrandpa got on the phone, calling around to different companies who install heat pump systems. He found three companies in the tiny yellow pages for our county, and made appointments for all three of them to come out to give us estimates. We are now waiting for them to come out and tell us the bad news. This makes everything except the bathroom sink that has given us problems since we moved in. Maybe this will be the last of the money pit for a while.

Back when I was growing up in west Georgia, I was in love with Peter from Herman’s Hermits. I didn’t have any posters on the walls though, because I shared a bedroom with all of my siblings. If we all had just one poster, it would have covered up all of the walls in that one room!

The other day, I found the coolest website, called IDPoster.com. Of course, the first name I looked up was Herman’s Hermits, and of course they didn’t have any for them. It COULD be because I am so OLD or it could also be because this particular band was not very popular. But they DO have plenty of posters for Harrison Ford! He is my favorite all time actor, except of course for Robert Mitchum. And of course, there were no posters for Robert Mitchum, either.

But guess what? IDPoster.com has the option of creating a custom poster! So, if they don’t have a poster of the star you are looking for, you can upload a photo and have them create one for you. You can also use your own photo, or ones of your husband or children, to create your own poster with you as the star! I think I may get one made of my grandchildren so I can hang it in my office! You can get a 17″ X 11″ semi gloss poster for only $14.90 plus shipping! With prices like that you can afford several.

Over the years of my adult life, I have needed an attorney for many reasons. While I have never needed a New Orleans bankruptcy attorney, I have looked for one in Georgia. We are looking at the possibility of filing bankruptcy in the next few months.

The first time I needed an attorney was when I got divorced for the first time. I was kind of young and dumb, and agreed to use the same attorney that my husband was using. Because my husband was the one paying for the services, he came out better in the divorce than I did. When I went to an attorney for my second divorce, I made sure I paid them myself, and that they were working for me. I never made that mistake again.

Next, my current husband, to whom I have been married for twenty years now, was involved in a horrible auto accident. He was in the hospital for 15 days, and had five broken ribs, a concussion, two ruptured discs in his neck, and a broken hip. He was not able to work for more than two years because of his injuries. We retained an attorney to file a lawsuit against the company that employed the man driving their company truck who hit my husband’s car. The attorney we had was very good at accident claims, and we were awarded a very good settlement from the company’s insurance company after about two and a half years.

Another time we hired an attorney was when my daughter was twenty one years old. My husband wanted to adopt her, because she really needed a Dad and he was always there for her. She wanted to be adopted by him, too. So, we hired a family law attorney to handle that job for us. She had to advertise the intention of my husband and daughter to get adopted to each other. At the end of the advertisement period, we had to go to court for an adoption hearing. While it took quite a while for the process to complete, the day we went to court was a very happy day for our family. We were very pleased with the job that the attorney did for us.

We have a couple more legal things coming up where we will have to hire an attorney. We have been asking around to our friends and family to find a good one to handle our business for us.

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I know that stopped up toilets and overflowing septic tanks are not laughing matters, because whenever you need one of those rotor rooter guys to come out, it means you have a very serious problem. It usually means you have a stinking mess to be worried about too. Every once in a while, though, you hear a funny story involving Rotorooter.com. I heard this story many years ago, and have never forgotten it.

One of my friends, who shall remain nameless, had just recently gotten married. A couple of months later, the septic tank at their rental house overflowed. Her husband called Rotorooter, and she had to take a day off work to wait for the service man to come out with his truck to pump out the septic tank.

As my friend was standing there chatting with the septic tank man, she told him how she and her husband had only been married for two months, and moved into this particular house about a month ago. There was no problem with the septic tank until the day before, when it started overflowing into the neighbors yard. She told the guy she hoped he could figure out the problem and get it fixed so that this didn’t happen again.

My friend chatted with the workers the whole time as they got their equipment set up, and started digging up the yard. The guy dug up the septic tank, and opened the lid, and to my friends embarrassment, there on the top of the fluid in the septic tank were hundreds of condoms that had been flushed down the toilet! She said she made a most hasty retreat into the house and never came outside again while the service man was there!

Another story I have personally is that I used to have a picture of my ex-husband standing in the septic tank of our first house, shovel in hand. Our septic tank line had gotten stopped up with roots, and instead of calling a pro, he insisted on doing it himself. That picture is the only one of him that I saved after we divorced!

This is a sponsored post however, all the stories are all my own, and true.

When we bought our house last winter, we decided that we would live in the RV in the back yard until we could save up money to buy some furniture. It was a good thing we decided to do that, since we had to do some serious drain cleaning in the house. All of the sinks in the house were stopped up and slow draining, something we couldn’t check before we bought the house because the water wasn’t on.

The first thing we had to do was install the connections for the RV. We have a friend who is an electrician, and he came out and added a 30 amp electrical connection so we would have power. Next, we had a propane tank installed and hooked up the gas. The last thing we had to do was find a quality plumber to add an RV sewer connection to our septic tank.

Once everything was set up, we were able to live in the trailer until we went back to work in Arizona. Our plan was to save enough money over the summer to be able to buy the basic furniture we needed to get moved into the house. Even though our plans were not exactly carried out, we knew that even if we didn’t have enough money saved to buy furniture we could always live in the backyard again because we had that plumber come out and install that sewer line for us.

Since we got back here in October, we have had to have a plumber come out three more times. The first time he came, we had hi repair the shower. It had no water pressure, so there was not enough water coming out to take a good shower. The second time he came, the pipes under the kitchen sink had been leaking. He had to also replace the thing in the sink that connected the sink to the drain pipe. It was black with dirt that wouldn’t come off.  The last time he came, he had to fix the outdoor water spigot. It was broken is such a way that it only leaked when it was turned on. I’m hoping that is the last time we have to see the plumber around here.

This is a sponsored post however, all the points and views are my own.

I am a bit late with this press release, but you still have until midnight tomorrow night to get your entry in for the 7th Annual Man-O-Manischewitz Cook Off. Here is the info about the contest:

Until February 4, 2013, enter the 7^th Annual Man-O-Manischewitz Cook-Off for a chance to win the $25,000 Grand Prize, which includes   Maytag® appliances, cash, an expense paid trip and a beautiful crystal trophy!  This year, the contest will be held at the Manischewitz® Manufacturing Plant and Headquarters in Newark, NJ, giving contestants and guests a peek inside their state-of the-art production facilities.  The Cook-Off encourages at-home chefs to experiment with kosher products while preparing delicious recipes that could be a new family favorite, or one that has been shared for generations.

The entry deadline is Monday, February 4, 2013.  To enter, log onto www.manischewitz.com, and click on the Cook-Off Banner to submit your recipe.  The recipe must adhere to Kosher guidelines, be prepared in under an hour, have no more than 9 ingredients which must include one of the Manischewitz® All-Natural broth flavors-new Turkey, Chicken, Reduced Sodium Chicken, Beef and Vegetable, plus one additional Manischewitz® product. Four finalists will be chosen by the judging panel and five semi-finalists will be posted on www.manischewitz.com  from February 21^st through February 28^th, allowing consumers to vote online to select the fifth finalist. For complete contest details, go to www.manischewitz.com.   

So, hurry if you have a great recipe that to share! You can check the Manischewitz website to learn about what is Kosher if you are not familiar with that method of cooking. Go on! Get Cooking!

 

One of the things I really loved about living in an RV for thirteen years is that there was not much “housework” to do. The whole trailer was only six hundred square feet (probably less than that) and less than half of it was carpeted. When it came time to clean the carpets, I could do it in about thirty minutes with a brush and can of carper cleaner.

Now that we have a house, the amount of housework there is to do has multiplied. I seemed to have forgotten just how much work it is to take care of a house! We only have two rooms that have carpet, but it still seems more the job for an expert carpet cleaning company to clean them. Compared to the size of the carpets in the RV our new house seems enormous!

Right now, I am trying to decide if I want to get the carpets cleaned now, or wait until spring. The bedroom smells musty, like maybe the people who used to live here had a dog. We also live on a dirt road that has a lot of traffic going back and forth all the time. The dust seems to settle into the carpet. Maybe it’s just me, but I think that if we did get the carpets cleaned now we would be able to sleep better. Hmmmm……….