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Four Reasons I Haven’t Been Writing About My Life Lately

Karen · 17 Comments

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Do you ever have those moments where you feel like you need to do something, but you just don’t have the motivation to get it done. If you are like me, the thing you need to do at that moment will be put aside for an hour, a day, a week, and on and on until it has become months and months that you have not done that thing. Well, the thing is, I just haven’t been writing any chatty, personal posts here since April when Fabgrandpa and I went to Richmond to visit our daughter. And if you know me, you know that is just not like me. So, when you look up there at my header, and see all those “thought bubbles” of things I like to do and write about, you will see all the things we haven’t been doing this summer. 

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There has been a lot going on here in the Fab household. None of it has been fun. Some of it is not my story to tell, but it has had an effect on me which IS my story, so I need to say a bit about that. With that said, here are the top four reasons I have not been writing charming, witty, and interesting posts to entertain you, my readers. 

Fabgrandpa and I Have Been Sick

Fabgrandpa and me last year.
Fabgrandpa and me last year.

It is not a major illness, but we have been passing a nasty bug back and forth between us for what seems like months. This bug, whatever it is, causes me to get an ear infection, and chest congestion. I have had at least three rounds of antibiotics, which beats it back for a while, but once I have taken all of the pills, it comes back in a few days. I’m really tired of it. So is Fabgrandpa. Because he has COPD, he is also given steroids along with the antibiotic. I’m just ready for it to go away. 

Doctor Appointments. And More Doctor Appointments

In addition to the bug that will not leave us alone, Fabgrandpa started seeing a pulmonologist. This is the first time he has seen a pulmonologist since he was diagnosed with COPD several years ago. She changed some of the meds he was taking, and has ordered a ton of tests, which created more appointments at various places. She also referred him to a cardiologist for a stress test to make sure that his shortness of breath is not being partially caused by an underlying heart problem. He has not been to that appointment yet. Some weeks we have had three appointments. It does seem like that is all we do right now. All of the places we have been going for the appointments are about 30 miles from home, so it is a 60 mile round trip. By the time we get home, I am exhausted, and spend the rest of the day in my recliner, sleeping. 

My Mother’s Dementia Has Gotten Worse

Mama will be 89 in November.
Mama will be 89 in November.

My younger sister, Linda, has taken care of Mama for many years. But, she has a new job with the sheriff’s office, and can’t take off work as much as she did at her old job. I have been taking Mama to her doctor’s appointments for the last year or so, which is a 90 mile round trip for me. In the last few months, Mama has gotten to the point where she needs a wheelchair to get around, and her dementia has gotten bad. She fell twice in her hallway because she forgot to use her walker. The last time she fell, she was admitted to the hospital, and was taken from there to a rehabilitation facility for physical therapy. My siblings and I met and decided that it was time to move Mama to an assisted living apartment. This has not been an easy decision. It has been emotionally and physically draining on all of us. Linda and her husband Alan took Mama to her new home yesterday. 

The decision to move our mother to assisted living meant we have had to empty her house and put it on the market to sell it. She has been living in her house for 51 years. Every closet, every drawer, every kitchen cabinet, was packed full of her life. She kept everything. Every greeting card anyone ever sent her. Every scrap of paper. We even found three pairs of pants that belonged to our brother who died in 1979. I made the trip to Mama’s house every other day, a 90 mile round trip, for almost two weeks. On the days I didn’t go, I slept in my recliner. If I didn’t have to take Fabgrandpa to an appointment. That monumental task is complete for the most part. We are now hoping her house sells quickly. 

My Son Is Getting A Divorce

Owen and Amelia with Fabgrandpa at Michael's graduation last year.
Owen and Amelia with Fabgrandpa at Michael’s graduation last year.

While this is not my story to tell, it does affect me. I have been so sad for him, and have been grieving along with him over this loss. His wife left with Owen and Amelia, my grandson and granddaughter, in May, and went back to England. I haven’t seen them since before Easter. I may never see them again. My heart is broken, and I feel like it will never recover. I feel like a fraud calling myself Fabgrandma, because I don’t feel so fab at all. 

So, there you have it. The reasons I have not been motivated to write. I am participating in the ProBlogger  Challenge – 7 Days to Getting Your Blogging Groove Back. Go check out the podcast if you would like to participate. 

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  1. Sam says

    August 2, 2016 at 8:10 am

    Oh I just love your Blog! I am SO happy to have found you via ProBlogger and look forward to more of your posts! Hope you feel better soon x

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    • Karen says

      August 4, 2016 at 3:00 am

      Thank you!

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  2. DEBIJOT says

    August 2, 2016 at 9:00 am

    I feel so sad for you losing your grandchildren. My grandkids live an hour away and I miss not seeing them every day. The most you can do right now is try to stay in contact with them, if their Mother allows it. May God Bless You And Your Family.

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  3. Cynthia Wright says

    August 2, 2016 at 10:42 am

    Seems as if when it rains it pours sometimes. Sorry you have so much going on all at once. I know first hand how overwhelming that can be. You definitely deserve a break from writing, whenever you need it. Without you, there’d be no Fab Grandma. Take care of yourself. Hugs!

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  4. patty says

    August 2, 2016 at 12:45 pm

    Life is not always kind to us in ways large and small. I do hope that you have finally gotten rid of the bug you have been passing back and forth. You mother is now in the best of care. Take a deep breath. Your grandchildren may find their way back to you in time….you can only wait and hope. Hugs.

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  5. Eliza Ferree says

    August 2, 2016 at 12:51 pm

    So sorry you have been going through all this. First, may that nasty bug leave you. I have been sick since January myself, no answers. You have been dealing with one thing right after another, you are definitely a strong woman even if you may not feel it at times. You are totally a fab grandma, some would just ignore the fact they have grandkids, but you don’t. You acknowledge them and I’m sure if/when they ever reach out to you that you will write them back. Big hugs! Oh I just saw the challenge in my inbox and have been debating on doing it…now I just might. 🙂

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  6. shelley zurek says

    August 2, 2016 at 12:56 pm

    Karen, I am so sorry you are going through so much. I will sincerely pray that most of this passes quickly and that you have the strength to deal with the rest.

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  7. Denise says

    August 2, 2016 at 12:59 pm

    I think you ARE fabulous Karen, no matter how you feel at the moment, but I sure hope that you and Fabgrandpa get to feeling better real soon! Thanks for sharing your story!

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  8. Sara Phillips says

    August 2, 2016 at 2:12 pm

    You are fabulous, Karen! You can’t let your son’s nearly-ex-wife have control over your feelings! I hope you and FabGrandpa start to feel better soon & you are able to care for your mama!

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  9. Becky says

    August 2, 2016 at 8:11 pm

    Oh, you are still FAB! Hope and pray things start to turn around for you and your family – especially for the kiddos! xoxo

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  10. Sandy says

    August 3, 2016 at 12:33 am

    PLEASE have your home tested for mold…your illnesses may be related.

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  11. Georgia says

    August 3, 2016 at 1:41 am

    I’m so sorry you are going through such a rough time at the moment. I hope that things start to look up for you soon, and that you are able to see your grandchildren again sometime soon.

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  12. Allison says

    August 3, 2016 at 7:24 am

    I’ve definitely been there before and had those moments when there was just too much going on around me to even focus on getting the right words out. Try to take care of yourself and tackle everything one thing at a time. The writing will come when it’s ready, but everything else is so much more important right now. Sending hugs!

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  13. Jasmine says

    August 3, 2016 at 4:52 pm

    So sorry to hear you’re having such a rough time.Hope you get to see you grandkids soon that will make things brighten up.

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  14. Carissa Pelletier says

    August 3, 2016 at 11:15 pm

    Wow! Certainly all very good reasons alone to take a break from blogging. Best wishes for everything to get back to normal soon!

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  15. geogypsy2u says

    August 6, 2016 at 10:23 pm

    I am so sorry to hear this sad story and hope you and Fab Grandpa are both feeling better. This divorce is not your fault so you are still the FabGrandma. I sure hope the kids can come visit. Hang in there my friend.

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  16. Elizabeth says

    September 4, 2016 at 5:46 pm

    So sorry to hear life has been so hard of late…some years are like that…no wonder you and hubby have been so ill…stress makes every single thing we have wrong with us, worse, so one doc told me. I believe it!! Hope things will be better for you soon!! I do understand about living far away from grandchildren…most of mine live clear on the other side of our continent…so we rarely see them…even when in town, we are not allowed much time with them. Everything is reserved for HER family, not ours. Hugs to you!!

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