You know, when we have our children, we as parents always have dreams for them, that they would accomplish great things, that they would be successful, and that they would follow in our footsteps. Today, I would give anything if my youngest daughter, Emily, was not following in mine. You see, her husband, my Fab Son-in-law, was diagnosed with squamous cell carcinoma of the larynx last week.
Right now, they are trying to be very optimistic, hoping for the best, while preparing for the worst. The only thing is, we don’t know exactly what the worst can be. I do know that FabGrandpa and I will be able to guide them to some extent, to show them the road, to help them along the way. As I told her, “unfortunately” they have someone who has gone before them, to give them advice and to listen to their fears. While FabGrandpa and I had each other, and an online support group, Emily and her husband will have us, and I hope we will be able to help them in whatever way we can.
Fab S-I-L is a surgery scheduler at a hospital in Atlanta. Right before Christmas, he lost his voice, so he went to the doctor to have it checked out. That doctor said he had a polyp in his throat, and scheduled surgery to remove it. When he got in there, he discovered that the mass was not what he thought it was, and just did a biopsy instead. He was referred to a specialist at Emory University Hospital, who did a thorough exam, including a CAT scan. He is going to do another biopsy next week. We are hoping for good news.
So, I am here to nudge you all, again, to get an exam for oral cancer at the very next opportunity–it is painless, doesn’t take much time, and can save your life. Please, just do it!
I wanted to update everyone to let you know that Thomas’s second biopsy came back benign. We are so thrilled and so appreciative of all the support and prayers that we recieved!